Sister Spotlight: Kaitlyn Tanner - Miss Georgia Southern 1st Runner Up

After recently having the honor of receiving 1st runner up and the talent award at Miss Georgia Southern, I wanted to share a little about how I became involved in pageantry and the incredible benefits that pageantry has brought into my life. As a kinesiology major on the pre-physician assistant track, I stay busy balancing my academics with my passion for pageantry, athletics, adoption advocacy, and ADPi.

Nevertheless, most of my life has been influenced greatly from the incredible life lessons and connections that pageantry has brought me. 

Pageantry is a hobby that many look down upon, when in reality it is a community full of grace, talent, poise, and love. Pageantry has taught me some of the most valuable life lessons and shaped me into the person that I am today. Before I started competing in pageants around the age of 13, I was too timid to hold a fluent conversation, and I was too scared to put myself out there for others to see. However, pageantry has taught me a lot more than just how to rock an interview and speak in front of crowds, it has also brought me so many life-long friendships and allowed me to build my personal adoption platform called The H.E.A.R.T. Initiative—Helping Every Adoptive Relationship Together.

I first began competing in pageants because I wanted to showcase my love for playing piano in the talent portion of the competition. After winning my first title of Miss Albany’s Outstanding Teen at the age of 13, I learned that there is so much more behind the crown than what you do on the stage. As Miss Albany’s OT, I later went on to compete at Miss Georgia’s Outstanding Teen where I made the top 12! It was at this pageant where I met Megan Wright, who is now my Great Grand-Big in ADPi. I am so grateful that ADPi reunited us after meeting each other at a pageant 6 years ago!

In 2023, I was crowned Miss Georgia Teen Volunteer, where I went on to place 5th at Miss Teen Volunteer America in Tennessee and won the fitness award. This title and competition built some of the strongest friendships in my life and allowed me to make connections from all across the nation. Miss Teen Volunteer America week will forever go down as one of the best weeks of my life. After my reign as Miss Georgia Teen Volunteer, I helped crown Allie Griffis, a former member of Epsilon Pi, as Miss Georgia Volunteer!

Many have the misconception that pageant titleholders are just “pretty girls” who do not participate in anything other than pageantry. This is very untrue, as I have met some of the most involved and incredible individuals through pageantry. Lots of pageants actually require contestants to have their own platform or community service initiative, where the contestant will work to promote or fundraise for a certain charity or cause. 

This part of pageantry has influenced my life the greatest as it motivated me to use my personal adoption story to help those involved in the adoption community by creating The H.E.A.R.T. Initiative. With The H.E.A.R.T. Initiative, I raise awareness and funding for those involved in the adoptive and foster care community to ensure that everyone understands that not all children grow in their mom’s tummies, but some grow in their hearts. With The H.E.A.R.T. Initiative, I have used my pageant titles to promote adoption awareness throughout the nation and be a part of raising nearly $30,000 for the adoption and foster care community.  

So next time you see someone with a crown on her head, remember that she is more than just a queen. She is a talented, service-oriented, hard-working, dedicated, compassionate, and incredible individual who has probably used that crown to change so many lives!  

Also, if you have ever considered competing in a pageant or want to start, please reach out to me and I would love to help you!

Love, Kaitlyn Tanner (PC ‘24) <3

Sweet Friendship Refreshes The Soul

Oh ADPI, where do I start?! This past semester has brought me feelings of overwhelming joy, pure bliss, and true happiness. It is true what they say, “sweet friendship refreshes the soul!”. Proverbs 27:9 reads “A sweet friendship refreshes the soul, and awakens our hearts with joy”. ADPI has brought me friends who truly awaken my soul and bring me closer to the feet of Jesus. Intense, belly-hurting laughter could turn into intense, emotional crying, or a movie night that actually turns into a therapy session. Country music that turns into gospel music. Anything a girl could need, your best friends have it all.

Coming into the entirety of rush, I wanted to find a sisterhood who loves not only each other, but the creator of everything I am and love. There truly is no place like home. A place where I truly feel valued, cherished, and loved like no other. A place where Christ is the center and we’re all just in awe of his creations. My bible study group is made up of girls who are genuine, kind, and most of all sweet as honey! They make me better, more inspired, and more passionate about all the things that life throws at me. Whether that's good or bad.

When in the house of ADPI, you hear a saying that goes something like “ADPI isn’t something you become, but something you’ve always been”. That couldn’t be more true. I’ve found my absolute best friend in this sisterhood and I get the privilege of learning what makes her magic! We are best friends, but ADPI made us sisters! Sweet friendships are just one of the many things that this house is built on. Being a vessel for Christ is something I try to achieve and fall short of everyday, but how cool is it that I get the opportunity to try and be a light for so many other vessels?! Everyday at college is truly an adventure waiting to happen, and it’s normal for there to be rocky times and times of hardship. It doesn’t mean that tears don’t shed, or that things aren’t tough. It does mean that you get to share those feelings with girls who will genuinely lift you up and be there for you no matter what.

Before coming to college, I struggled with feeling left out or maybe just not worthy of certain friendships, no matter how hard I tried or how kind I was despite how I was treated. So, sure I was nervous in anticipation about having those same feelings when joining a sorority. I can tell you those feelings were cast away, and that true, genuine friendship is built on the one who destined you to be great. Jesus Christ. You will always have a friend in him, and God has blessed me with abundantly more throughout my time in ADPI! I was lucky enough to be around girls who I know will always strive to not only make themselves better, but push their friends to their fullest potential. I can’t wait to see what God has in store, and how he moves in every friendship. They do refresh the soul!

“Love each other as I have loved you.” John 15:12

With love, Meadow Robinson PC’24

New Year, Same God

I could not be more excited to jump head first into 2025! “New Year, New Me” right?! Well not exactly. There is a lot of good to take from 2024 and bring into 2025! A lot of new friendships, some wisdom gained along the way, and a new love and appreciation for others! As I look forward to a new year of possibilities and opportunities, I cannot help but first reflect on the goodness of God this past year.

Each year I try to choose a word that will be my mindset and motivation for the next 365 days. I got this inspiration from Sadie Robertson on one of her podcasts a while back. My word for 2024 was Discipline. That sounds scary, but it was quite the opposite. Being disciplined in certain areas of my life has created new habits that I am so thankful for. My first test of discipline was linked to my time in the Word- God’s Word! I had a goal to complete the Old and New Testament of the Bible in a year. These daily readings re-shaped my thinking entirely. Starting my day with a cup of coffee and time with the Lord gave me a steadiness and readiness for whatever the day ahead had in store for me. I learned so much about Jesus’s character and that really helped me know myself a little more. After all- Imago dei! I am Made in the Image of God! Though I have not quite finished the entire Bible yet, I am so close and have a newfound eagerness to walk with Jesus daily. So I am calling that a win!

My second focused area for discipline was health and fitness. My best friend Emma and I have a college goal of running a half marathon. Which ~get excited~ is less than one month away! This past year we started slow and steady. We ran in the Georgia Southern Homecoming 5k and then later tackled the Gate River run which is a 15k in Jacksonville. We then found ourselves in the gym working out and maybe hanging out a little too (we’re just girls) haha! On days when both running and working out felt like a daunting task I reminded myself not only of my “discipline” mantra, but I also reminded myself of some wise words from scripture.

God tells us in 1 Corinthians that my “our is a temple of the Holy Spirit, who is in us, whom we  have received from God? We are not our own; we were bought at a price. Therefore we should honor God with our bodies." This may sound crazy but on days we have nothing to offer our Maker, the least we can do is move our body. Our body is a gift to us and in return our walking, running, singing, dancing, and even our sweat can be an offering back to our Heavenly Father.

As I continue my reflection on 2024, although I did not choose a verse at the beginning of the year, God so evidently poured Ephesians 3:20-21 over my life. “Now to Him Who is able to do exceedingly, abundantly above all that we ask or think, according to the power that works in us, to Him be glory in the church by Christ Jesus to all generations, forever and ever. Amen.” Wow. There have been some hard “No’s” in 2024 but always with a greater “Yes” on the other side. This year I have truly lived out some of my very own prayers. I prayed for a sorority that loves me- God gave me ADPI. A group of girls that love me AND Him. I prayed for a college best friend- God gave me too many friends to count AND I have a friend in Him. I prayed for girls to lead in a Bible study weekly- God gave me six girls to lead weekly AND they lead me to the feet of Jesus. I prayed for a good Little in ADPI- God sent me Anna Kate AND she is now one of my very best friends. I prayed for a leadership role in ADPI- God has allowed me to be on exec this year AND I get to serve alongside the best and most faithful girls. I could sit here and do this forever. I say all of that to get to the point that neither me nor you can out-imagine God. We ask for little and He gives much.

As I step into this new year my word that I choose to pour over my life is “still”. This word spoke to me at a YoungLife Camp I attended to ring in the New Year. At the camp I was reminded of Jesus’s lifestyle. Like myself, Jesus was busy. He always had somewhere to go, someone to meet. But never do we see Jesus in a hurry. Instead, we see Him intentionally making time for those around Him. He sat at the table a little longer, He walked a little slower, He loved a little deeper.

At camp a lady spoke and said “never be in such a hurry that you don’t have time for God to surprise you.” That’ll preach! I will be the first to tell you, I think busy is good! But let us not pair busyness with hurriedness. After all, I am reminded of the scripture in Psalms 46:10 when God tells His people to “Be still, and know that I am God; I will be exalted among the nations, I will be exalted in the earth!” How can we know that He is good and He is God without first being still? Now, after this revelation, one of my favorite prayers to pray is “God, let me be reminded of the stillness that knowing you requires.” I challenge you to try that as well this year. Pray that the God of peace and rest will quiet your heart and still your soul.

I know for many of us there are some trials and hard moments that we will be happy to leave behind in 2024, but let me encourage you to bring some of the good things into 2025. Recline at the table, pull up a seat for someone new, slow down, and be present. I am hoping 2025 has some good surprises in store for us all. Remember, God has been faithful before and He WILL be faithful again.

Love, Natalee Griffin (AC ‘23)

Heaven on Earth: Passion 2025 Recap with Mallory Wallis

At the start of every new year for the past three years, my greatest joy has been getting to begin my year at Passion Conference. This experience is the closest thing to heaven I believe I will experience while on earth. Everyone knows that 20,000 people is a lot but being in a stadium with 20,000 people jumping, dancing, and worshipping at the top of their lungs in itself is truly life changing.

Now that I am attending Passion Conference as a college student, I have a completely different take away from the sermons and it is such a beautiful change in perspective. This year I am leaving with a powerful mindset. 

As day two began, we were hit with an extremely heavy message from Sadie Huff. Sadie explained that it is “one thing to be at Passion but it is another thing to go back to your campus and shine God’s light”. Sadie’s sermon moved me and thousands of other college students because we may not realize how much influence we can have even at a young age where we feel like we may have no voice on a large campus. 

The most powerful prayer that we can pray is “God I want you here”. God will come where he is wanted therefore as I am home from Passion 2025, I am compelled to pray for God to move powerfully on our campus, in Greek life, in our families, in our churches, etc. 

I thank God every year for the breath of fresh air that Passion blesses me with every new year, but this year I thank God for the change in my heart posture that He has presented me with.

Love, Mallory Wallis (AC ‘23)

A Leap of Faith

With spring recruitment coming up, I can’t help but think about how blessed I have been over this past year of being in Alpha Delta Pi. As a girl who came to college terrified and overwhelmed, recruitment was not something I thought I could add to my plate. I think back to that scared girl who just moved into her dorm with random roommates, and I feel blessed to see my growth.

When I first moved in, I watched all my roommates go through fall recruitment and part of me felt like I was missing out. But I told myself there was absolutely no way I could have done that. I had just moved away from my family, I was going into a competitive field with difficult classes, and I was definitely not the outgoing type. After I had convinced myself of all these things, I felt like I had sort of come to terms with not going through recruitment. 

The first months of settling in were hard for me. However, at this time, I had met some friends to help me out. My freshman year roommates were one of my biggest blessings. One in particular, Peighton Hart, was, and still is, my biggest supporter. If I was having a hard day, there was no doubt she would be there to lift my spirits.. She was the one who put it in my mind that I could absolutely do recruitment if I wanted to. I had started to hang around her and her new friends. I saw the way they were with each other. Although these girls did not know each other at all a few months prior, it was like they had known each other their whole lives.

So after much thought, I decided to try out spring recruitment. I wanted so badly to feel that kind of friendship and sisterhood. I knew that if I did not at least try, I would regret it for the rest of my life. I would always think about the “what if’s” and “what could’ve been.” I went into with a whatever happens, happens kind of attitude. Spring recruitment is hard, that is no lie. You have just a few events then it is time for bid day. It feels like a very quick process. I remember spending all my time after any event thinking about how on Earth anyone would even remember my name in this crowd full of girls. This whole process was way out of my comfort zone. But that was what I needed. I needed to push myself and really put myself out there and that is exactly what spring recruitment allowed me to do.

After what felt like an insanely long time, bid day had arrived. Phone calls were being given starting at 8 AM. I had no idea what to expect. When my phone rang at 8 on the dot, it felt like my heart stopped, no lie. I received a call from two of the most amazing people, Megan Wright and Emilee Robinson. It sounds cliche, but since that day, my life has not been the same. God has blessed me in ways I never imagined. Spring recruitment and Alpha Delta Pi have changed my life and given me girls I never knew I needed. These are my future bridesmaids, the aunts to my future kids, the girls I want to be old and wrinkly with! So my advice for spring recruitment is just do it! It won’t hurt you to try to go out of your comfort zone. I am so glad I did. I am forever in debt to ADPi and Spring recruitment.  

Love, Cami Gay (AC ‘24)

On to the next!

Over the past year, I have been given an amazing opportunity to publish all the ADPi blogs! I remember when I first started as Director of Public Relations, I had no idea how much this position would shape my experience in ADPi and college overall. I had so much encouragement from all my friends and sisters in ADPi, and Megan Wright–who held this position before me, was an incredible role model who helped guide me through all of my responsibilities. Of course, I also had the best VP of Marketing Kaylor Cumbee who made my position so fun! She not only allowed me to grow and be creative but made sure to support me along the way. My freshman year coming into ADPi, I always knew involvement was going to be one of my main priorities, and what better way to stay involved than to become an officer?!

As a psychology major, I never thought I’d enter the marketing team, but here I am! Being on the marketing team as a whole has been one of the best experiences and is something I hold dear to my heart being in Epsilon Pi. I’ve spent my time brainstorming content, all while getting to know each and every one of you through your words I got to publish! Whether it was celebrating our philanthropy, highlighting personal stories/testimonies, or our “WHY ADPi” every post was so unique and reminded me of why I chose Alpha Delta Pi myself. Looking back, some of my favorite moments were the behind-the-scenes ones—where I got to collaborate with so many of you to bring these stories to life. I truly felt like I was connecting with each of you through this platform! Of course, it wasn’t always easy. Sometimes the deadlines seemed never-ending, and the pressure of this combined with school and work could be overwhelming. But in those moments of stress, I always found encouragement through your stories and the girls the Lord had placed in my life.

As I step down and hand the blog over to Keilynn Sapp–who I am very lucky to call my little, I know the blog is in the best hands. I am also very excited to announce that even though I won’t be “the girl behind the blog” anymore I will be “the girl behind the Instagram!” I am overjoyed with my new position as the Digital Marketing Specialist for Epsilon Pi and incredibly lucky to work with KP Raggett, a true friend, and our new VP of Marketing! (Here’s to the dream team!!!) As I wrap this up, I want to thank every sister who shared her story, her experiences, and her heart with me this year. You made this journey unforgettable, and I’m so proud of everything we’ve accomplished as a chapter. I am forever grateful that I got to share our sisterhood with the world, and I can’t wait to see how it continues to grow! I love you always Epsilon Pi!!!

With Love,

The Former “Girl Behind the Blog”

Lindsey Ponder (AC’ 23)

A Bitter Sweet Goodbye

To the chapter I could never truly  repay, 

Epsilon Pi, let me be the first to say that you can change someone's life in a second. Coming into college, I wanted a fresh start and a space to truly be myself. Little did I know that the Lord would lead me down Olympic Blvd to 112. With not knowing anyone, I would catch myself sitting and wondering what my future would hold. Not long after, I gained 262 of the best friends that a girl could ask for. Through leadership positions, sisterhoods, philanthropy events, and all of the  late night talks in between, there is no doubt that this was the place where I was supposed to be. It tends to be said “ADPi isn’t something you become, it’s something you’ve always been”. There is no better phrase I could use to express my last 3.5 years. This chapter has helped shape me and my college experiences in ways I could have never imagined and for that I will forever hold this time close to my heart.

As I reflect specifically on this past year, there is one word that comes to mind: gratitude. I will forever be grateful that I have a chapter that believed in me to lead and serve as president this past year. Being in this role has been both humbling and empowering, and it has given me the chance to pour back into others what you’ve so generously poured into me. I am grateful that I have been given the opportunity to see how encouragement has uplifted this chapter in tough times. There are so many ways that the enemy can get in your head, especially when holding a leadership position.You have been my source of strength, lifting me up and reminding me of my purpose when I needed it most. You’ve shown me that leadership isn’t about having all the answers, but about leaning on each other and trusting that we’re all in this together. Epsilon Pi is special due to this specifically. I have seen each member in this chapter lean on each other and reach out to each other in difficult times. Being in a sorority isn’t about all of the bright lights and fun pictures but also the friendships that you build along the way. Gratitude. I thank the Lord everyday that He has given me a chance to experience this in a way that I could have never expected.

This past year has been a joy! Through the long nights, chapter meetings, inside jokes, the GOLDEN LION, and multiple hurricanes, it has been an absolute privilege to serve as Epsilon Pi’s President. This has been an opportunity unlike any other but it has taught me to think about so much more than myself. Getting to know every member on a deeper level, meeting other presidents, and meeting others on a district level has opened my eyes that ADPI is more than just four years. This organization has prepared me for the real world and that it is imperative to surround yourself with people who uplift and support you. Thank you Epsilon Pi for a fun filled year and thank you for memories I will never forget. I will love you always! 

When I reflect on myself during the past 3.5 years, I have seen a change unlike any other. The Lord has shown himself so clearly. More clearly than I could have ever imagined. Epsilon Pi highlights the importance of faith and the impact it has on the chapter and its members. Let me be the first to tell you being a part of a chapter that puts faith first changes the dynamic of the chapter overall. While being a part of this chapter, I have had the opportunity to go on two mission trips - Cuba and Guatemala - as well as lead Bible studies. Having others around me that push me to grow closer with the Lord and living a life that glorifies him has impacted my life altogether. Thank you Epsilon Pi for taking me out of my comfort zone and showing me the many ways that the Lord shows His grace. 

It has been an honor and a privilege to lead this chapter and how far this chapter has come throughout the years. I hope that every member knows that they have impacted my life in some way and I will forever be grateful for the gift that they bring to this chapter. Now it is Nan’s turn to take over and I have full faith that she will lead this chapter with the Lord by her side.

Love you always Alpha Delt, 

Emilee Robinson

Epsilon Pi President 2024

Your Life, God's Plan

Rush week… WHAT a week!! As we all know, rush week is filled with so many emotions, more than we can count. I want you to put your mind back to rush week and the emotions you had, were they all positive, all negative, or a mix of both? Personally, I was so excited yet terrified, asking myself all the self-destructive questions along the lines of if I would be good enough for any of the sororities. I caught myself thinking things like what if they don’t like me? Am I pretty enough for them? Did I do enough interesting things in high school? Do I stand out enough? Is my rush outfit cute enough? Did I make enough eye contact and smile enough? Is what I said in that last house weird?? I could keep going on and on but this post would go on forever (LOL!!). I am more than sure you can also remember all the self-critical things you asked yourself during rush too.

The day before it started a wise friend and father all in one (God!) told me something that gave me a huge mindset shift and is what I believe led me on a clear path to ADPi. But before I give that good nugget of truth, let's go back to when us girls were so little and started thinking about all the big and exciting things like what college we would attend, what are major would be, what sorority we would end up in, and who our big was going to be. Then the thought of if we would meet our bridesmaids there, and the bigger question of will we meet our husbands there too??? Just like rush week thoughts, those future questions went on forever. All those thoughts, even though exciting, sometimes had us overlook where we were in that exact moment, we would sometimes miss out on the present thinking too much about the future. Then without any warning whatsoever rush week was just hours away. WOW I don’t know about you but I felt like I didn’t have many moments of peace those days leading up. That was until God told me that nugget of truth I was telling y’all about that CHANGED the game for me. He told me that no matter what I do, I am not powerful enough to mess up HIS plan…. WOW, humbling yet so loving. I carried this with me throughout that week. Anytime I was waiting to go into a house I would repeat it in my mind to calm me down and give me peace, I would say it again after time in a house especially after I felt like I maybe said something awkward and messed up my chances. God knew exactly everything I was going to do and say through the whole process and knew exactly which one I would end up in.

Alongside being in peace with what God had told me, I had asked Him to make it super clear where I was supposed to go. Sure enough, He did just that. At the end of each day the other houses, although filled to the brim with sweet and loving people, still had me feeling torn and confused, yet I would leave the ADPi house with so much peace, joy, and clarity, all feelings that come from God. He made it so clear and not confusing because I relied on His word that I am not powerful enough to mess up His perfectly designed plan. He has been preparing me for where I was supposed to go way before I even entered this Earth. It is crazy how God shows up anywhere and everywhere. Sororities are man-made, meaning they are not going to be perfect, they are going to be flawed in one way or another, but if you let Him, God can be abundantly evident throughout your chapter. Here is what I want you to take away from this reading: I want you to seek out and listen to God's plan and follow it. So many times we pray to Him and ask for guidance but then forget to listen to His answer He has given you! The enemy's voice is loud and confusing, God's voice is gentle and loving, “Be still” (Psalm 46:10). Take comfort in knowing as long as you follow His voice and follow the steps He has laid before you, you will never be able to mess up His beautiful plan.

Love, Anna Kate (AK) Fuqua (AC’ 24)

Verses relating to this reading:

Jeremiah 29:11 “ I know the plans I have for you, declares the Lord, plans to prosper and not to harm you, plans to give you hope and a future.”

Psalm 46:10 “ Be still, and know that I am God”

Matthew 6:34 “Therefore do not worry about tomorrow, for tomorrow will worry about itself. Each day has enough trouble of its own.”

Proverbs 31:25 “She is clothed with strength and dignity, and she laughs without fear of the future”

Proverbs 19:21 “ Many are the plans in a person’s heart, but it is the Lord’s purpose that prevails”

Psalm 37:23-24 “ The Lord makes firm the steps of the one who delights in him; though he may stumble, he will not fall, for the Lord uphold him with his hand”

Home Somehow

All my life, I’ve been ambitious, somewhat of a daredevil and without a doubt adventurous. All of these traits of mine were definitely showing up when I was in the process of applying to colleges. All 15 colleges I applied to were out-of-state, middle-of-nowhere schools that most of them I'd never heard of before. This was extremely shocking to all my friends back home & it honestly shocked me too. 

I was barefoot, blonde-headed, and probably wearing a bikini. My fun was bridge jumping, beach hopping, skating, and anything that involved the ocean. The California coast was all I’ve ever known and it's almost embarrassing how I am the epitome of a California girl. But I liked the idea of being somewhere new. I could never explain how bittersweet moving away from home was. It was the coolest and scariest thing I’ve ever done. But it's one of my proudest accomplishments and I would not change it for the world. 

Georgia Southern was the very last school I toured and as soon as I stepped foot onto campus I knew that it would be home for the next 4 years. I think it's the coolest place ever. This school is without a doubt one of my biggest blessings. I have met my very best friends, the kind I prayed for. I have the honor to be a part of Alpha Delta Pi, which is something I hold very close to my heart. This sorority and the girls in it push me to be the best version of myself. It isn't so bad being 2,000 miles away from my family when these girls have stepped in and made me feel at home. I couldn't ever express how much they mean to me. They are sunshine. 

I have fallen in love with this place. The southern hospitality here is unlike any other. There are hundreds of fields to run through and I have come to love the beauty of greenery rather than the ocean. Everyone has a funny accent and greets you with a big hug. Saturdays are my new favorite day of the week, well because it's a saturday in the south. I could go on and on. I’ve always believed that God works in funny ways. & for me, the funniest thing He ever did was lead me to Georgia Southern and Alpha Delta Pi – my home somehow!! 

A Letter To All PNMs

Dear PNMs,

I cannot believe that we are only 1 sleep away from finally meeting each other, it feels like Christmas Eve and I can’t wait!! I know you all are feeling all of the emotions right now from transitioning from home to college, living completely on your own for the last couple of days, to getting ready to go through sorority recruitment for the first time but trust me when I say that everything will be perfectly fine! As you navigate this next week my advice to you is this,

Before you ever decided what college you were going to and before you decided that you were going to join a sorority you were designed as a “one of a kind” girl who is strong and who is loved. These are things that can never be taken away from you no matter what the outcome is and no matter what house you choose to run home to. With this being said try and be your truest self throughout every conversation we are here to get to know you and want to see the real you!!

Soak it all in!! Right now you are beginning the best 4 years of your life and trust me as a senior, it goes by way too quickly. I would do anything to turn back time and be a PNM again!! So do it all, go talk with your neighbors, become friends with your pi chi group, laugh as much as you can, and truly enjoy the process because you only get to be a freshman once!!

My last little piece of advice is to not be nervous! I know this is hard but just take a deep breath and know there are 700 girls right beside you all feeling the same emotions! I’ll also let you know a little secret, every girl on the other side of the door is just as nervous! So let's all just take a deep breath and know that everything happens for a reason and let us all just have so much fun this week!!

I am rooting for each and every one of y’all and cannot wait to see all 706 of your sweet faces tomorrow!! Love you all already!!

Morgan Kirkendoll

‘AC 21 Director of Primary Recruitment

The House That Love Built

If I could encourage anyone to take away one thing from their time at Georgia Southern, it would be to explore to find something greater than yourself. During the Fall of 2022, I was overwhelmed with all the emotions that came along with leaving for college. Moving away from home, meeting all new people, and deciding to go through formal recruitment was truly the most exciting and nerve-wracking time of my life. Moving from Florida to Statesboro, GA I knew hardly anyone coming to early move in for recruitment, yet I still was filled with excitement for the experiences I knew I would soon have, and the unknown to come.

Recruitment was going well during Icebreakers round, but nothing could have prepared me for the Philanthropy round at ADPI. I had no idea what the Lord had in store for me until the moment they pulled down a projector, and a video showcasing the Ronald McDonald House Charity started playing. The emotions I felt when this occurred showed me that I had finally found my home. Growing up, I never knew where I’d fit in. My life has certainly been unique, as I have been battling an ongoing medical condition from birth. From simply looking at me, you would never notice anything wrong, but deep down, I knew I wasn’t normal internally. I felt as though I had to keep all of my problems to myself, since nobody knew I had them unless I told them. In the first grade, I started going to the RMHC in Cincinnati. This gave me a sense of belonging, as I met kids exactly like me for the first time ever. I quickly learned that the adversity I faced was something I was not going through alone, and that I did belong somewhere. The Ronald McDonald House is more than just a place for families to stay when their children are receiving medical treatment. It is a place that can make kids feel as though they are not alone. In the Ronald McDonald House, I never feel the need to hide my condition, I feel comfortable and proud to show kids that there are others in the world exactly like them. The moment the RMHC video started playing, I knew I had found my something greater. Growing up, I never knew if I would have a purpose to pursue, as I had a permanent condition that left me unsure about my future. ADPI led me to a realization that I never had before: every second of my life was handmade for a reason.

I will forever be in debt to ADPI, as it opened my eyes to what I was once blinded by. Being in ADPI offers support from women who come together to help a greater cause, which happens to be the organization that has made my life what it is today. As a chapter, we are given the amazing opportunity to provide meals and raise money for the Ronald McDonald House. From my personal experiences, I have been given the opportunity to see how these selfless acts from Alpha Delta Pi impact and assist thousands of families across the country. Gifting families’ support and creating an environment that allows children to feel normal is truly a blessing from the Lord, as I would not be in the position I am today without it. Epsilon Pi has shown me how God plans your life in unknown ways, but it is ultimately for a greater reason. If you would have told me as a child the things I have accomplished and experienced now, I wouldn’t believe it. God gave me an opportunity through ADPI to find something greater than myself, and for that, I am forever grateful.

With Love, Emily Popp AC ‘22

Finding Yourself, Your People, and Your Purpose

As I reflect on the past four years of my life, I am profoundly grateful for the impact Alpha Delta Pi has had on my life. Leaving my small hometown, and moving somewhere I did not know a single soul, I had no idea what I was exactly looking for or what I was even doing to be quite honest… but I found so many missing pieces of myself in 112.

You hear about sororities being a home away from home, and all of the cheesy phrasings… but there just isn’t another place in this world where you can rely on 200+ women to have your back and encourage you in this crazy season of life. I found who I was called to lead within this group of women. I found a genuine feeling of sisterhood within this group of women. And above all, I found the love of Jesus within this group of women.

I think it is important to know that it is not easy. No matter how social media portrays it, I struggled a lot when I first moved and continually tried to find that perfect balance between college and myself. It nearly felt impossible. Without Alpha Delta Pi, I can truly say I would not be the person I am today. This organization embraces me even through a time of struggle and continues to reward me daily. The way I have been accepted and loved by my sisters in ADPi has shown me time and time again how Jesus accepts and loves us.

I have been honored to be a part of something bigger than myself, and I am forever indebted to this sorority for all it has given to me

With love, Kaylor Cumbee AC ‘21

The House That Built Me

Three years ago during my rush process, I lined up on the stairs of 112 Olympic Blvd not knowing what the Lord had in store for me. A few days later I ran home alongside PC ‘21 and have never looked back! 

I’m going on year two of not only having the privilege of living in the ADPI house but also taking care of it! I am blessed to be able to serve on exec as the Director of Facility Management which means I take care of 112 and all the house girls who live there. Through this position, I have gotten to help with the behind-the-scenes of everything regarding the house and even help make decisions alongside advisors on updates to the property! I never could have imagined how this house has truly become my home away from home and I hope that every girl who walks through the big front door experiences that feeling!

To give you an inside look at what living in the house is like, you will find our house girls and their friends spread out all over the house, cooking dinner together in the kitchen while debriefing their day, doing homework together in the sunroom, movie marathons in the living room, and late night sweet treat runs to Parker’s. Another amazing aspect of ADPI is the location of the house on Greek Row where you're surrounded by so many wonderful sororities!

Getting to live with 11 other girls is a one-of-a-kind experience that I will cherish for the rest of my life! It has provided me with amazing friendships, unforgettable memories, and endless laughter. My favorite part of living in ADPI has to be always coming home to a house full of girls to talk to about anything and everything. The house has given me the opportunity to connect with so many sisters as they pass through each day for different things. 

I will leave with the best piece of advice I received and that is to get involved! By getting involved in ADPI my college experience has been something I could have never dreamed of! 

With love, Maddie Gamblin PC ‘21

Greek Summit 2024 with Nan Mullis

There is something so special about Greek Life, the beach, and quality time with people who love Jesus. Greek Summit was a trip that wrapped all of that plus more into one unforgettable two weeks. I had the opportunity to travel to Destin, Florida with eight of my ADPi sisters, other Georgia Southern students, and Greek students from all over the south and experience Greek Summit. This was a trip to grow our relationships with the Lord, find community with other Greek believers, and learn how to bring Jesus back with us to our campus and sororities.

Every day of Greek Summit was a new adventure, but they all led us back to the feet of Jesus. Most every morning, we met at a local church to hear an amazing message and engage in powerful worship. Then, we were given an hour of quiet time to sit with the Lord individually praying, getting in the word, journaling, etc. This was one of my favorite parts! Then, we split into small groups with students from other schools and amazing staff members to dive deeper into the day's topic. Some of my favorite topics were the Holy Spirit, prayer life, and the importance of international missions. The afternoons were full of discipleship, games, and fun plans like putt-putt, trips to Seaside, and “Flip Flop Formal.” All just reminders that walking with Jesus and living in a Godly community is FUN! However, I think the best memory I have of Greek Summit was getting to evangelize on the beach. I know that sounds kind of crazy, but this reminded me that people everywhere and all around us are in dire need of the Gospel of Jesus Christ. Karmin Clark (AC ‘23) and I spent two hours walking down the beach talking to people about Jesus. We made genuine connections with total strangers and were able to pray over their lives. God’s intentional and on-time hand was so evident in these conversations. Something else I will carry with me forever from this trip is the new bonds I created with my Epsilon Pi sisters. We grew so close in such a short time, and I know they will be there for me as Godly friends when we get back to Statesboro. I love them all so much! I will always be grateful that I was able to experience Greek Summit!

Most peoples’ immediate thought when Greek Life comes to mind probably isn’t Jesus. I love the Lord, and I want everyone I come in contact with to experience the love and redemption that I have found in Christ for themselves. This past year, I have really wanted and prayed this for my sorority sisters. Sometimes this prayer of spreading light and truth can feel intimidating and almost hopeless, especially on Greek Row. I had no idea how sweetly and clearly God would answer this prayer at Greek Summit. I watched brothers and sisters from all over experience Jesus’ love and redemption for the first time. I had raw discussions and shared testimonies with girls who experience the same struggles and hopes as me. I learned ways to keep my passion for the Lord burning, ways to be a friend to my sisters how Jesus would, and how to step out in boldness and urgency when it comes to spreading God’s Word. But I think most importantly- I was reminded that I am His daughter and that is my number one identity. And so are all of you! God whispered this on my heart in a moment of wondering if I was “good enough” or “equipped enough” to be a vessel for Him. I am not perfect, and I don’t have to be, because Jesus is! He so freely gives to me, so my purpose in life is to give my all to Him. I have found more joy, love, and contentment in following the Lord than I could imagine. Every day I get the unique experience of being in a community with over 200 sisters, and Greek Summit pushed me to not let one opportunity to share Jesus go by. 

“I have come that they may have life, and life to the full.” John 10:10

With Love, Nan Mullis PC ‘22

Sister Spotlight: Megan Wright - Miss Georgia Southern

We are so proud of our sister, Miss Megan Wright, for competing and placing as one of the five finalists in the Miss Georgia Scholarship Competition! Megan embodies the spirit of sisterhood and is a dedicated member of Alpha Delta Pi. To know her is to love her, and we are so happy to have been able to cheer her on through this journey.

With love, Epsilon Pi Chapter

“Looking back on the whirlwind of these past few weeks, I’m filled with so much gratitude it’s hard to put into words. My heart is brimming with thankfulness, especially when it comes to my Alpha Delta Pi sisters.

They say college is where you find your lifelong friends, but I found so much more. I found a family in Alpha Delta Pi. These incredible women have been my rock, my cheer squad, and my guiding light. Every step I took towards the Miss Georgia stage, they were right there with me—in spirit and in love. I knew with certainty that every moment with my sisters has been a building block in the foundation of who I am today.

When I decided to compete for Miss Georgia, it was a dream that seemed so big, but my sisters never let me doubt my own abilities. They were the ones who helped me practice my walk, who listened to me rehearse my talent piece over and over, and who never stopped believing in me.

Alpha Delta Pi didn’t just prepare me for a pageant; it prepared me for life. The leadership skills, the emphasis on academics, the commitment to service—these are the tools that have shaped me into a confident, driven, and compassionate individual.

As I stood there on the Miss Georgia stage, I knew I had an entire sisterhood with me. Placing as the 4th runner-up was an honor, but the real prize has been the skill sets and confidence my sisters in Alpha Delta Pi have instilled in me.

To my sisters, I want to say thank you. Thank you for the endless support, for the genuine care, and for the memories that will last a lifetime. I am so proud to wear our letters, to represent what we stand for, and to be part of a legacy that is so much bigger than myself.

Alpha Delta Pi has been my home, my safe place, and the sole reason for my achievements. It’s been an honor to represent not just myself, but all of us at the Miss Georgia Competition. I am a true believer that you are who you surround yourself with, and I am so grateful that I got to bring small pieces of all of you not only to Miss Georgia but to everything I do. Here’s to the bonds that never break, to the sisterhood that always gives, and to a future where we continue to lift each other up to new heights. I love you, Epsilon Pi.

With all the love in my heart, Megan Wright

A House Turned Into a Home

My name is Skylar Beck and I am so excited to share with you my “Why Adpi”. I had first toured the school & loved everything about it, so I decided to attend in the fall. During my tour, my family also suggested that we tour Greek Row. Long story short, we went down row looking at each of the houses and stopped at “the pretty white house” to ooo and ahh over for a good 10 minutes before heading back home. Little did I know, a few months later I would be running to that house on bid day and that would soon be one of the best days of my life. Now, we need to back up a little to recruitment week. I went into rush essentially knowing nothing, which is crazy to think. This was mainly because no one in my family was in Greek life & only a handful of people from my hometown of Peachtree City went to Southern, so this left me with a completely open mind. As the week started, I just felt uncertain of where I would end up and what God’s plan for me really was with this.

I spent the whole week praying the same prayer over and over again, just asking Him to lead me where He wants me and that I know His plan is greater than mine. After a few rounds of rush went by, I finally met Taylor Thompson. She was like a breath of fresh air and I felt like she was a friend that I had known for a few years, not just a few minutes. Miss Taylor is obviously beautiful, but it wasn't her physical appearance that was the most beautiful thing about her, but rather how on fire her heart was for Him. You could see His love through her smile and laugh. She was so passionate and got so excited when I brought up my faith and how important it is to me. It was so refreshing to just talk about Him and not about my hometown, what sports I played, or where I went to high school. I was able to feel stress being lifted off my shoulders for the first time the whole week. This was when I knew that He was telling me that this is where I belong.

Soon enough, bid day came around and let’s just say it was better than any birthday party or celebration that you have ever been to. Oh, also the theme for bid day was “Fly Delta” and my dad is a pilot for Delta. Crazy, right? It could not have been the biggest sign ever that I was led to the right place. Throughout my first year as a member of Alpha Delta Pi, I have met the sweetest lifelong friends that I could have never imagined. My faith is something that is really important to me and I’m so grateful to have sisters that encourage me to dive deeper into it every day. I am so proud to call each and every girl in this chapter my sister. It is overwhelming to think of all of the love and support I have had just this year. I prayed for friends like this my entire life and now I finally have them. These girls are not just my sisters, but my future bridesmaids & friends for life. It’s funny to think that the “pretty white house” that I was looking at out of my car window is no longer just a house, but my forever home. 

- Skylar Beck AC’23

Unexpected Blessings

Sometimes, life has a way of surprising us with unexpected blessings that touch our hearts in profound ways. It could be a kind word from a stranger on a tough day, a serendipitous encounter that sparks a new friendship, or a sudden turn of events that leads us down a path we never imagined. These blessings remind us of the beauty in life's unpredictability, offering moments of grace and gratitude amidst the chaos. They serve as gentle reminders to cherish the little joys and to always keep our hearts open to the miracles that can unfold when we least expect them.

Everyone knows the feeling of leaving home for the first time. There's a sense of bittersweet anticipation as you pack your belongings, each item a memory carefully tucked away, a piece of the comfort and security that home has always provided. As I prepared to start my new chapter, I had to face one of the hardest things I’ve had to do, leave all my family and friends. Feelings of sadness for saying goodbye raced through my mind but also excitement for new adventures and the chance to make fresh memories.

Deciding to come to Georgia Southern I had always planned on participating in sorority recruitment. The sorority recruitment process is a whirlwind of emotions. Each house holds the promise of sisterhood, of finding a community that feels like home. Being in a new town, without any of my best friends from home by my side to endure it with me was intimidating. I felt so alone. The anxiety and fear that I felt in these moments were indescribable. I was in over my head. It hit me that I was about to make the first big decision in my life,  truly on my own, without any guidance. I was clueless, scared, and anxious. All until I stepped into Alpha Delta Pi. 

From the moment I walked through the doors of Alpha Delta Pi, I felt all the worry and anxiety I had been feeling be taken away. It was a place where I instantly felt a connection. During recruitment, I could feel the sisterhood that was in the room. Each girl had a genuine love for each other. I knew ADPi was the place for me. But I never could have expected the blessings it would bring me. 

In my short time as a member of Epsilon Pi I have learned a few things. Epsilon Pi is filled with girls with hearts that are on fire for Jesus, and it shows. It’s a place where each girl wants the best for one another. A gorgeous place that is where laughter, genuine love,  constant encouragement, and unforgettable memories, are so present, that you can’t help but feel it whenever you are inside. Each member has the same morals and values in life. While simultaneously, each member has a unique and beautiful heart. It has been one of the most rewarding experiences getting to know each one and seeing how all of our different strengths come together to create a chapter with such an uplifting spirit. 

 “An ADPi is not something you become, it is something you have always been” The scared and anxious girl I was a year ago had no idea the characteristics of an ADPi woman that was within her. The fear and sadness I had for leaving my home have quickly been replaced by the happiness that I have found here. I have friends who have become sisters to me overnight. A whole new community of people who love me fiercely. A support system that never fails to encourage me on my bad days and that is always there to cheer for me on my good days. I have a place that is my reminder of home on days that I miss it a little bit more than others. God’s plan for the new chapter of my life was evident with Alpha Delta Pi. I wish I could go back in time and tell myself a year ago not to worry about how scary it is to leave your family and friends and experience something alone for the first time. God had a way of placing me exactly where I needed to be. The big white house at the end of row is the most amazing unexpected blessing the Lord has ever given me. I am forever indebted to you, Epsilon Pi.
Love, Allie Boatwright PC 23

Advisor Appreciation!

Mrs. Jennifer has been nothing short of a blessing for me but also for this chapter! I am so thankful to have her as an advisor. She is a constant that I need in my position and she always knows what to say and when to say it. Mrs. Jennifer has taught me not only how to be a strong leader but also how to be confident in myself. There have been so many times when life can get you down, but it is reassuring to know that Mrs. Jennifer will be there to encourage me and make sure I’m in the right mindset! Besides sorority life, I look up to Mrs. Jennifer in all aspects! I am in school to become a teacher and Mrs. Jennifer is the principal of a school! She is someone I strive to be one day and I hope she knows that so many girls in this chapter look up to her as well! Epsilon Pi, and I, would not be the same if it wasn’t for Mrs. Jennifer! I will forever be thankful for her and I know I have someone to talk to for the rest of my life! You are the best!! 

- Emilee Robinson, President 

Becoming the Director of Philanthropy was all things exciting and rewarding although, at times I found myself overwhelmed because I had so many questions and ideas to begin my term. I wondered if my advisor would understand my ideas yet the stress I put things under and would help guide me in the right direction to fulfill my position as well as possible. When I found out Eastyn Durrence was my advisor she was an immediate answer to prayers. Not only was Eastyn a kind-hearted and helpful light in this chapter when she was active but she has been patient, excited, and willing to help or get the answer when I have any questions as my advisor. I could not imagine my first semester as Director of Philanthropy with anyone else but Eastyn because of the endless support and confidence she has given me throughout my events. I cannot thank God enough for joining our paths and for her influence on this chapter in many aspects. She truly is a positive leader whom Epsilon Pi is lucky to have for many years to come!

- Caroline Morgan, Director of Philanthropy  

I have been so thankful and honored to work with Mrs. Mia Sellers, our membership experience advisor, since being elected VPME in November. She has taught me so much in just one semester! Mrs. Mia took the initiative right off the bat and invited our whole membership experience team to dinner. From that one night, I could already tell how much I would enjoy working with her. She was so kind and witty and had many great plans for us! She is SO present for not only me but the whole chapter. She is always checking in on me and I know I can count on her no matter what. I think Mrs. Mia is one of my biggest cheerleaders, and I am so thankful for that! She truly believes in me and never holds back what needs to be said! This has built my confidence and assurance of myself so much. Our whole team loves Mrs. Mia, her ideas, and her eagerness to be there for Epsilon Pi. Mrs. Mia is seriously the best, and I can’t wait to continue working with her for the next two years!

- Nan Mullis, Vice President of Membership Experience 

During my time in Adpi, Mrs. Lisa has made such an impact on my life and taught me things that will forever stick with me!! Mrs. Lisa represents every quality of an Adpi and has continued to share that legacy with this chapter over the years by being our recruitment advisor. working beside her during spirit and recruitment week made me see a whole new side of adpi and see how lucky I am to call myself an adpi!! she is incredibly dedicated to this chapter and treats every member of this chapter as her own. Mrs. Lisa helps lead this chapter with grace and class, and we would not be the chapter we are today without her!!

- Jenna Beck, Recruitment Analyst 2023

Joining exec was a new experience for me that brought excitement and worry. Ramsey made the transition so much easier by always being a quick call or text away! She has supported me through every situation that has come my way and always helped me find a solution. She has shown me what true dedication to one’s chapter looks like as she has always served Adpi since joining! I know that I have a role model and someone to call whenever I need anything! I’m so thankful for everything she does behind the scenes for me and the chapter!

- Maddie Gamblin, Director of Facility Management 

Mrs. Susan has been so supportive of me during my time as the VP of Finance! Her dedication in assisting me in overseeing the sorority's financial affairs has been consistent and invaluable. Mrs. Susan's commitment goes beyond just our chapter; she knows her stuff and has been vital in keeping us in line! Mrs. Susan, your support means so much to us, and I truly appreciate all you do!

- Natalie Dietter, Vice President of Finance 

Tayler has easily become one of my biggest supporters during my time as Vice President of Panhellenic Relations. From reassuring me that an idea is good, or giving me advice as a first-time executive board member, I am so appreciative and grateful for all that she does for me! Having an advisor like Tayler to be able to rely and lean on is perfect and I’m so excited for another semester with her!

- Grace Pham, Vice President of Panhellenic Relations

Epsilon Pi is so thankful to have all of these advisors and the dedication they consistently show to ensure that this chapter remains strong! We can’t wait to see how this chapter grows with the love and support of all of our advisors!

With love, Epsilon Pi Chapter

Spreading God's Word

 If someone had told me a couple of months ago that I would fly thousands of miles to spend my first college spring break on a mission trip in Guatemala, I would have called them crazy. I had never been on a plane, never been out of the Southeast of the United States, never had been incredibly open in my relationship with Christ with my peers, and had never really tried sharing the gospel with anyone. The idea of doing all of this and especially doing it in the span of one week was something that I would have never pictured for myself. However, as soon as spring break rolled around I was seated on that plane heading straight to Pasaco, Guatemala with some of my ADPi sisters and other Greek life students to share the gospel in the communities there.

   The first day I was extremely anxious about evangelizing for the first time in my life, being with a group of people I didn’t really know, and overall doing a good job representing the gospel on the trip. I had so many fears that I wasn’t cut out for missions or that I wasn’t going to make deep friendships while we were there. However, the Lord proved my fears wrong throughout the week. Getting to share God’s love for us and the good news that Jesus died for our sins and defeated death, so that we may have a relationship with God was an incredible experience I will never forget. Also seeing how hearing the gospel affected people so deeply in every house we walked into, and how sharing it deepened my faith and inspired me to be more bold is something that is going to stick with me for the rest of my life. The community and friendships that we built there have provided me with some of the most kind-hearted, God-loving, and authentic friends who are so hard to come by and who are a blessing to have. 

Overall, our trip to Guatemala is one that has affected me so deeply in all the best ways and showed me how incredible our Lord is. Three paragraphs simply does not do justice to how impactful this mission trip was for me and the amazing friends I made along the way. While taking that big leap of faith is scary, it is the best choice I have ever made in my life and I find myself now looking at how I can continue to go on mission trips every spring break from this point forward, and I hope that I can continue to share this wonderful experience with my wonderful sisters at ADPi.

- Kadee Walker PC’23

God is Always Working Even When We Don't See It!

Hey everyone my name is Ashlyn Arendes. I am currently a sophomore at Georgia Southern and in my 3rd semester as an Alpha Delta Pi! Before ever committing or even thinking about recruitment, I was searching for friends my entire life who had the same desires as I did, made me seem popular, or gave me the best social status. Growing up I began to realize how lenientant and how much trust my parents had given to my siblings and me. My parents were not strict and allowed us to do anything because of the trust they had put in us. As I began to notice this more and more throughout the end of my middle school years and all throughout my high school years I began to really dig deep into my faith and loving god with all of my heart. At the peak of my classmates, friends and me turning from kids into teenagers I noticed how people I was surrounding myself with were not longing for the desires of how I wanted to live my life but they strayed down different paths instead. At the end of my 8th grade year going into highschool drinking, smoking became important to almost everyone I had spent time with. I started to see friends flee from me, thinking I would judge them or critique what they were doing simply because I did not participate in any of these activities. This began to really hurt my heart and shifted my mind to thinking, just maybe if I did these things I would finally feel accepted or seen again. Standing strong in my faith and sticking to what I know is true, I knew God was the only lifelong satisfaction my heart needed. During high school, I started to feel as if God had forgotten about me. I started to ask him why he took friends away that I thought I needed, people I thought loved me so much, the people who gave me the “best social status or popularity.” I asked myself these questions every day for four years, “why me, why did I lose friends when I was the girl who didn't go to parties or do all the things high school kids did to fit in, I always go to church and attend bible studies, how come everyone else has friends and I don’t?” This took a toll on my life. I stopped wanting God so much and wanted the popular friend group and the best fashion style more and more to make me feel seen, to feel accepted. Finally graduating I was so concerned this would all happen over again in college. I started to think, “Who are my friends going to be, will people like me, how will I find new friends?” Since middle and high school were the years I started to believe that having the prettiest, best dressed, popular friend group was all I needed to fulfill what was missing in my heart, I believed this all until the day I walked through Alpha Delta Pi’s front door! I had always questioned myself wondering if a sorority was for me. I didn't think I would fit in, I didn't believe I was “the preppy sorority girl.” Until the first night of registration opened up, I immediately felt the need to sign up. I wasn't sure if it was for me but I wanted to at least try. I didn’t want to finish my college years asking myself, “What if?”

Recruitment finally came around, I was extremely nervous. Growing up in the town of Statesboro and now going to college in Statesboro I thought there was absolutely no way I could find my best friends in the place I had called home for 15 years, the town where I struggled so hard to find Christ-centered friendships but never found them. As the first day of icebreakers came around I met the kindest people ever! I knew giving this sorority thing a shot could be worth it. I had prayed over and over if God would just allow me to stay true to who I am and what I believed in. That then led to the second day of icebreakers where I took my first step into the front doors of Alpha Delta Pi. I knew right away this was the place I would find the lifelong friendships my heart had desired my entire life. I had talked to a girl named Riley Hart who made me feel so loved and so seen, she had the biggest and kindest smile on her face. As the week went on I couldn’t stop thinking about how Riley instantly made me feel the love I had been longing for, for the last 5 years of life. The girls of Alpha Delta Pi brought me so much hope. Every day after that I walked into Alpha Delta Pi I felt a sense of validation that no other house had brought me. I just knew this was the place I would spend my next four years building the strongest, most loyal, Jesus-loving friendships. 

Now being in my 3rd semester in Alpha Delta Pi I can confirm that the past year and a half has exceeded the expectations I ever held before becoming a member of Alpha Delta Pi. Realizing and understanding that a sorority is much more than just paying for friends; it’s finding community, navigating leadership roles, raising money for charities, and watching God move through 250 girls' lives was the most incredible thing I have ever witnessed! I began to transform the way I wanted to live life by learning and finding community in the chapter of Epsilon Pi. I now have the truest, genuine, loyal friends who love me on every level, friends who don’t judge me but hold me accountable, friends who are longing for the things I long for. Not popularity, the best dressed, or having the perfect relationship but friends who love Jesus unconditionally. Friends who understand that Jesus is all that we need, the only satisfaction that won't leave us wanting more. I say all of these things to say in all the years before college. I didn't understand why friendships were taken away or why I always felt punished for doing the right thing but the truth is that if those things weren't taken away from me I wouldn’t be standing where I am today. Without those things gone, who knows where my relationship with God would be or if I would have one at alI. I have lived my entire life trying to earn God’s love and gifts by doing what I thought was the right thing. It wasn't until I took the leap of faith went through the recruitment process and found the girls of Alpha Delta Pi. Through these girls, God has taught me that we live for him because we love him not to earn something from him! This is his truth! Our God is good all the time, our God never stops working. It is the times when we struggle the most and feel like he's not there, that he is preparing our hearts for something far much greater! Never second guess what God’s doing in your life, trust him! 

Jesus said, “ My father is always at work to this very day, and I am too working.” John 6:17